tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post1645717420766723816..comments2023-06-03T02:49:36.615-07:00Comments on Never Said Goodbye: buyer's remorse...I never got to say goodbyehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04599136318267725546noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-83894297040142808062012-07-27T08:57:48.303-07:002012-07-27T08:57:48.303-07:00I have been reading a lot of blogs and have heard ...I have been reading a lot of blogs and have heard a lot of people who adopted a child and now feel that was a mistake. I wrote a blog on here to try to add some understanding (from my perspective) on the whole emotional dysfunction that gets misconstrued as bad children/bad parents. The blog address is: http://davetheshreve.blogspot.com/2012/07/there-is-peace-in-understandingfrom.htmlDavetheshrevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11435883792948996423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-65170239453779176492012-07-25T18:50:05.355-07:002012-07-25T18:50:05.355-07:00Thanks for the recommendation!Thanks for the recommendation!I never got to say goodbyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04599136318267725546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-28327305801326669152012-07-24T10:20:39.659-07:002012-07-24T10:20:39.659-07:00I have read and heard many times, that children wh...I have read and heard many times, that children who have been adopted, when they grew up struggled with believing they were lovable. Recently I read a book called. "Feelings buried alive never die" by: Karol K Truman. It is a very good book, I would recommend to anyone who has been adopted or who has any type of abuse in their childhood. In the middle, the book sounds like it is getting a little weird in ideas. But once you finish the book. It all comes together and makes sense.Davetheshrevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11435883792948996423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-83591573462738996732012-07-16T15:15:57.201-07:002012-07-16T15:15:57.201-07:00Davetheshreve- I am so sorry to hear this... how a...Davetheshreve- I am so sorry to hear this... how awful.. I think it is so much more common than people think and another dirty little secret of adoption....I never got to say goodbyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04599136318267725546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-65743287830927755112012-07-16T06:11:17.858-07:002012-07-16T06:11:17.858-07:00I was adopted when I was 4, The family that adopte...I was adopted when I was 4, The family that adopted me, made me quite aware that they wanted to "take me back" my "adopted mom" called childrens serv. many times when I was between 4 and 7. telling them she was tired of me and wanted to return me. I am 46 yrs old now. I am still haunted by that thought. To be rejected once by my bio. mother, then by the people who adopted me. I will struggle the rest of my life I am sure, with the belief I am not lovable. My heart breaks for the Chinese girl. Her little heart will never mend from such hurt.Davetheshrevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11435883792948996423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-78436409794116838572012-07-11T09:57:39.091-07:002012-07-11T09:57:39.091-07:00Omg,I second Susie's remark.Omg,I second Susie's remark.Meg and Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08389282509165129192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-71063296755351659522012-07-07T16:23:54.419-07:002012-07-07T16:23:54.419-07:00It is so hurtful to see this as an adoptee... It p...It is so hurtful to see this as an adoptee... It pains me.I never got to say goodbyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04599136318267725546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6310736786137971467.post-35801066491427841382012-07-06T17:29:24.381-07:002012-07-06T17:29:24.381-07:00That poor child. I hope this mom gives up her par...That poor child. I hope this mom gives up her partner, not her daughter.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.com