Just curious- if you are in a relationship- at what point do you tell the you are adopted? When do you tell them you are concerned about adoption issues? At what point do you try to explain it to a non adopted person what it is like to be adopted if you are going to be having a close relationship with them? I am seeing a new man and he has figured out that I spend a lot of time on adoptee boards and blogs and seem to care alot about this issue. He seems very perplexed by this and does not grasp it at all.
What does one do?