I talked to him- it went decently well- he basically said he wished I had waited till his boys were well on their way- whatever that means- I mean they are 17 and 19 and the 17 year old is either going to stanford, harvard or yale- I mean really-???
Anyhow- he said if I want to meet the family fine but he won't be there-and I said that is your choice.
We talked for about 30 min just catching up and at the end he said I love you. I said it back.
But really- is this what love is? Is this the way we treat our children? It's not the way I treat mine.
Anyhow- its over now- I was so nervous about the phone call- and it is done. I told him my intentions- agreed to not contact his sons- I mean- I really don't want to anyway- what would I say? I am happy to meet the rest of the family and happy I am not doing it behind my dads back.